Day 16! Blogmas Edition

Self hate

Hello everyone, I hope you are all doing well. Ont tis post, I am going to give a commentary on a video that was posted by Aba and Preach on their Youtube channel.

My thoughts;

There is no problem with one desiring to date outside their race. The problem arises when the motive behind it is fueled by internalized self hate.

Genetics can mess up your expectations. You can marry or date outside your race in order to get a certain type of look for your children but genes can embarrass you. They may end being dark skinned and be far from what you desired them to be. So at this point, utado? (what will you do?)

Deal with your self hate before you decide to have kids. Imagine having kids and all you can tell them is how to hate their blackness.

Many people can sleep on you and hate on you everyday. But kindly do not be part of the ‘many people.’ Self sabotage is one of the worst form of punishment because nobody can save you from you.

Thankyou so much for reading. Let me know what you think.

Bye! See you on the next post.

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